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Schedule
Fall Semester 2008:

Research and Scholarship Ethics - M 2:00-3:40p
Advanced Topics in Molecular Biology - MW 4:30-5:45p
Advanced Biochemistry, Cell, and Molecular Biology - TR 9:30-10:45a, F 9:00-9:50a
Physiology of Human Systems - TR 2:00-3:50p
Colloquium in Molecular Biology Research - R 4:00-4:50p
Old Journal Entries
Or rather, entries from the old journal, as it were...

- An open letter to the College. (August 27, 2006)
- Untitled. (July 16, 2006)
- Haunted (Part One) (May 29, 2006)
- Are we growing up, or just going down? (May 3, 2006)
- I had a dream... (March 19, 2006)
- ... (March 14, 2006)
- Enjoy it while it lasts. (September 12, 2005)
- Scene: 3:27 AM. (September 3, 2005)
- Untitled. (July 26, 2005)

Psst... if you're looking for the academic writings I used to have here, head to my Reading Room.
Blockbuster Total-Access DVDs
Week of 6/30/08:
- Tokyo monogatari [Tokyo Story] (1953)

Week of 6/16/08:
- Akira (1988)
- Habuah [The Bubble] (2006)

Week of 6/9/08:
- Prime Suspect 4, including:
    - The Lost Child (1995)
    - Inner Circles (1995)
    - Scent of Darkness (1995)

Week of 5/26/08:
- Like Minds [USA: Murderous Intent] (2006)

Week of 5/5/08:
- La Strada (1954)
- Black Orpheus (1959)
- Le Notti di Cabiria [Nights of Cabiria] (1957)

Week of 4/7/08:
- Cleo de cinq a sept [Cleo from 5 to 7] (1962)
- Det Sjunde Inseglet [The Seventh Seal] (1957)

Week of 3/24/08:
- Prime Suspect 3 (1994)

Week of 3/17/08:
- Funny Face (1957)
- Lalechet Al Ha'mayim [Walk on Water] (2004)
- Charade (1963)

Week of 3/10/08:
- Yossi & Jagger (2002)
- Mists of Avalon (2001)
- Blow Up (1966)
The *New* Reading List
Since June 2006...

- A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius by Dave Eggers
- High Fidelity by Nick Hornby
- Travesties by Tom Stoppard
- The Way of the Shaman by Michael Harner
- The Tao of Pooh by Benjamin Hoff
- Nervous Conditions by Tsitsi Dangarembga
- The History Boys by Alan Bennett
- The Dark Child by Camara Laye
- Movie-Made America by Robert Sklar
- Diary by Chuck Palahniuk
- Rant: An Oral Biography of Buster Casey by Chuck Palahniuk
- Galapagos by Kurt Vonnegut
- The Dead Emcee Scrolls by Saul Williams [61.3%]
- Atonement by Ian McEwan
- Junk Science: An Overdue Indictment of Government, Industry, and Faith Groups that Twist Science for Their Own Gain by Dan Agin, Ph.D. [64.4%]
- So Yesterday by Scott Westerfield
- Lucky Wander Boy by D.B. Weiss
- The Things They Carried by Tim O'Brien
- Doctor Who: The Key to Time: A Year-by-Year Record by Peter Haining
- Why Buffy Matters: The Art of Buffy the Vampire Slayer by Rhonda Wilcox
- When You Are Engulfed in Flames by David Sedaris
- The Road by Cormac McCarthy
- 1984 by George Orwell [18.8%]
ClustrMap
So THAT'S where all the people reading this come from...
It's not that I don't want to go...
Monday, October 22, 2007 @ 10:14 pm
...but how do you politely refuse to go to a planned event for your ex-roommate's birthday party when you don't think you can afford it?

So his birthday's on 11/9, a Friday before a long 3-day weekend. The plan is to go out to dinner/drinks on Saturday night in San Francisco, which would be fine, but all of us supposedly going to this party had already made plans to go to a Sondre Lerche concert the following night and have fun during the day leading up to it. So now we're tacking on an extra day which would cost extra money to do and it would require me to spend the night in SF, which wouldn't be such a big deal if I never had any work to do during the weekends anyway. But being that I am taking classes, I do. And I NEVER work even if I bring work with me because there's always something better to do.

Another option would be to drive to SF, drive back down after dinner, and drive back up the following day, which is just silly, and also pretty expensive gas-wise.

Ugh.

I don't want to flat out say "No" because that makes it seem like I don't WANT to go which is the farthest thing from the truth. And I don't want to say "No" and then proceed to explain why because that makes it seem like I'm making excuses, and they'll probably try to shame me into it anyway and say they'll pay for me and whatever. But I don't want to be that guy either--the one who owes everyone money because he can't pay his own fucking way.

Well, I'm sorry I don't have the time or money to do things all the time. I know I'm young and supposed to be enjoying my life, but it's very hard to actually enjoy things when you know that the money you're using could be used to help pay off your student loans or your credit card or pay for graduate school (if you ever get in) or help go towards a new, less gas-guzzling automobile.... I think I had enough fun in college to screw me over for the rest of my life last me for a while so if I don't go out nearly as much as I "should" then I sincerely apologize. I just want to do something right for a change and get on with my life instead of lamenting that I fucked everything up and am continuing to do so because I'd rather spend $80 on a night of drinking myself silly than on gas for a week to get me to class and to work and to the other places I need to go to...

It's tiresome, yes. Soul-crushing, indeed. But I think it's something I need to do. Besides, I'm falling behind on my pleasure-reading... I think my weekends would be just as well spent doing that in the comfort of my own room (gas = $0!) than driving about 100 miles roundtrip just to buy a few $7 beers that should cost a buck-fifty...
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